I started this blog so that the family and friends of Kendall can join her in her journey. I am new to this "blogging" so please be patient with me as I record her journey. I am Daryl Sutton, Kendall's stepfather. I have had the pleasure of helping to raise her for quite some time now and love her very much. Nothing is more important to me than helping her overcome this so she may continue to have the life of her dreams. With God in our hearts and your prayers and thoughts, I know she will come through this, as it is Gods plan. I will be with her through this entire journey as I know many of you will as well.
On Friday July 31, 2009, Kendall, her mother(Tammy) and myself went to the doctor to speak with them about an MRI that Kendall had the day before. Kendall was having back pain and leg pain for several weeks now. We were initally told that there was a small spot(tissue mass) at or near the base of her spine. Once at the doctors office, we laughed and joked around waiting for the doctor to come in.Kendall was commenting on how good the tie looked that I was wearing. It was the tie that she had given me for Fathers Day. Then the doctor came in and looked at Kendall, checked her out and asked her to go over the symptoms again. The doctor then told us that it was not what they originally expected. There was a large tumor mass tissue in her lower back and pelvis area. The doctor said it was pressing on the nerves and that is what is causing the majority of her pain. He then said he wanted to do surgery to remove part of the tumor from the nerves and then biopsy it to find out what it is. He said it could possibly be Lymphoma and that was about all I heard until Tammy interrupted him. Tammy asked, "Isn't that a form of cancer?" The doctor said yes. He talked for a while longer and showed us some films of the tumor. He asked if we had any questions and I had a million of them but couldn't say anything. He politely excused himself and said his nurse would be in to clear up some details. The very second the door closed behind him, all of us busted out in tears. None of us knew what to say, we just held each other for a while.........So then we make arrangements for surgery......
On August 4, 2009, we show up at the hospital for surgery. Waiting...waiting ..and more waiting for Kendall to come back when we saw the doctor who now tell us that Kendall can not have surgery because her blood is for a lack of better words "out of wack". They admitt her to a room and later that morning they perform a bone marrow biopsy. They said we would not know anything for another 24 hours.....
....On August 5, 2009, around lunch, Kendall was told by her doctor that she has leukemia. AML - Acute Myelogenous Leukemia. They also told us they wanted us to go to MD anderson Hospital in Houston, Texas. They are one of the best leukemia hospitals in the country.....
....On August 7, 2009, Kendalls sister, Bragan, is getting married. Kendall is the maid of honor but she cant leave the hospital. But we were able to get through the wedding with Kendall still here. I set up a web cam so Kendall could watch and the people at the wedding could see her. There was a little delay in the wireless feed but it worked out well. Bragan and Brett even went by the hospital to have pictures with Kendall in her dress. I would also like to add that Bragan, you looked beautiful, Brett, I'm glad to have you in our family...I love you both!
.......So now, August 9, 2009...we wait for a place to open in Houston. They want us out there as soon as possible. We were told that it could be at any time, so to be ready.
I also would like to thank the many family and friends that have came by to see her and called us to check on her. All of your calls and visits mean very much to Kendall, as well as to Tammy and me. You have made us feel very blessed to have the support and love of family and friends.
I will continue to post updates on Kendalls journey and as I become more familiar with this "blog".
I want to say one last thing about Kendall: I have always told Kendall a bible verse that I feel strongly about and hope that it has helped her in good times and in bad. I have always been a little private with her in regards to matters of the heart. But I feel as if I should share with you what I have always told her. The verse is from Philippians 4:13. It states that "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Kendall is one of the strongest people I know and I know her faith is strong as well.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
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We love you and are praying for you.
ReplyDeleteLove, Whit, Chad & Karsyn
Kendall sweetie, you came into our lives when you were already four years old, and we have a soft spot in our hearts for you that has only grown larger as the years have gone by. As you go through this journey, remember how much we love you and are praying for you. And, kiddo, don't sweat the small stuff! LOL, Granny Lyn and Pawpaw Ed
ReplyDeleteKendall you have been around with the Handley's for 2 years now and have grown to love you like one of my own. At first you were way to quite but have come around and are so much apart of us. I know God has a plan for you and one day you will know why this was part of it. So be strong and do amazing things while your away. Know we are there in spirit and heart right there with you.
ReplyDeleteWe love you very much,
Ms. Patti
She is on my prayer list. Dru Jackson
ReplyDeleteKendall..I love you like a little sister...I have seen you grow into a beautiful woman and I am praying for you and your family every day. You are one of the strongest people that I know. God has a plan for your life and I can't wait to see what it is! I love you, stay stong....Michelle
ReplyDeleteKendall,
ReplyDeleteYou are in my daily thoughts and prayers. In case you don't remember me I teach at your old elementary school and I believe you were in my class or maybe it was one of your sisters. ANyway I will be checking on your progress routinely and am in agreement with your stepdad, You CAN do ALL things through CHrist that strengthens you. I am looking forward to competing against Team Kendall next spring at the Relay for Life. I have been a team captain for a former MOE student that is a survivor and it will be awesome to see you there too helping to raise money to find a cure for cancer. I love you and will be praying you through along with all your family and friends. Love, Mrs. Houston
Kendall, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers each moment of every day. I love all of you very much. Cathy Ingalls
ReplyDeleteKendall,
ReplyDeleteI'll never forget that day in Mrs. Mark's 7th grade Science class, when you told me that I was your cousin. I know you and I have always lived our separate lives with our own friends, but you have always had a special place in my heart! I'm very thankful that you are my cousin and my sister in Christ!! I agree with everyone else's comments; you are such a strong young lady and we ALL know that you will beat this!! If there's one thing I'm so sure of, God is by your side every second and He will be holding your hand throughout this journey!! You have SOOOOOOOO many churches praying because I've contacted all the ones I've attended(and that's a LOT! *smile*) And of course, you have your own family and friends as well! I love you Kendall and know that you are such a beautiful and special person to everyone who knows you, and especially your Heavenly Father who knew you before you were even born! Love and Prayers, Mary Catharon Counts
Kendall I have been praying for you the moment I found out about your 1st doctor's appt. You touched my heart the moment I met you. I think you were in the 1st Grade. You were such a beautiful little girl and so sweet. Now you are a beautiful and sweet young lady. I know God has special plans for you so hang in there and do what the doctors tell you. God's plans are perfect plans and I know that he will see you through it. I can't wait until you get home from Texas. Know that you have so many people praying for you. I will be praying for you and your family everytime I think about you. That will probably a whole lot. I love you, Renee Bush
ReplyDeletePS, Thanks Daryl for doing this blog. It will help us keep in touch.
My family and I will be praying...
ReplyDeleteKendall, we love you and are praying for a speedy recovery. Remember, take one day at a time. God Bless You!
ReplyDeleteTo Aunt Tammy, Uncle D, Whitney, Bragan, and Dylan.....we love you!
Bobby, Amanda, and Ty
Kendall, please know that we are all praying for God's healing touch. We will continue to lift your entire family throughout this journey.
ReplyDeleteAmy Wicker Lankford
Jeffrey, Jay, Josh, Johnathan and Jessica
hey kendall,
ReplyDeleteover the past two years that you have been with Chase I have came to know you and love you like a sister. You have changed my brother in so many ways and all of them that I have seen have been for the good. I have no doubt that you will be strong and make it through this. You have so many people loving on you and praying for you everyday. You have not anything from me through all of this except one thing. You have my word that I will do that. Anything you ask you know I will do and when it comes to that there is not question. I would have done it even if you didn't ask.
I love you and I will right by your side through all of this. You know that if you need anything I am just a phone call or text away. Dont hesitate to ask because nothing is too much for me to do.
I love you and will talk to you later,
kaley
Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI haven't got to spend a whole lot of time with you, but the times that you and Chase have hung out with everyone at Kristin and Philip's have been fun! I want you to know that I think about you and pray daily for God to give you strength through this tough time. You are such a beatiful person and God has a great plan for your life.
Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI've known your Mom since the beginning with Whitney, Bragan then Kendall. I did not forget Dylan. I worked her maternity leaves and baby sit a little. Jon-Halston and Dylan have even become play buddies. Your mother and I have connected a little more lately since Whitney's wedding, baby then Bragan's wedding and now your journey. You are a beautiful young lady as are your sisters. I will remember you as often as I pray. God Bless. . .
I hope your mother knows I will be there for her whenever, whereever. My entire family loves your entire family.
Beverly, Ray, Dana, Jon-Halston, Lane,Mike, Quinn and Piper
Best Friend!!
ReplyDeletewords cannot describe how much i love you and i thank god everyday for puttin you in my life! you have been there for me through so much and i will be here with you through this battle. you are TRUELY the strongest person i have ever met and bein with you this past week and seeing it first hand makes me feel so much at ease cuz i know you will fight this till the end. not a minute goes by that you arent on my mind. you are in my prayers and im glad i get to "cuddle with you/your squish everynight" oh and take care of my squish haha. the only thing i can look forward to now is seeing you again in like 2 weeks! i love you to the moon and back! i cant wait to see your pretty face on webcam...tomorrow :))
-Emers
ken ulllllllll :'(
ReplyDeletei love you babygirl,
stay strong.
you are in everyone's prayers,
you will make it through this i know it.
i love you sweetie,
have faith<3
Kendall - Please know that we have been & will continue to pray for you daily. God has wonderful things in store for you and HE will be with you every step of this journey. Much love, Chuck & Anne Belcher
ReplyDeleteKendall,
ReplyDeleteI don't guess you'll ever truly know just how precious you are to me and always have been since you were a perfect baby. Even though I rarely see you that much anymore (one of the things that stinks about living in Anniston), you continue to be a blessing to me and always will be. I love you with all my heart and I can't wait to see you again.
By the way, hold on to that Philippians verse Darryl mentioned. Another good one is I John 2:1, at least the last part, about Jesus being our advocate. That's a very, very powerful promise.
Kendall!!!
ReplyDeleteI mean you are obviously the BOMB.COM! I mean we all know this! I LOVE YOU!! and I am going to miss you! I pray for you every night but I am totally not worried at all bc you are such a strong girl you will rock this thing with no problems! Call me or Candice if you need some more pink sweatpants or anything else of course! (p.s. the next pair I send might be like the ones I got tonight bc I really like them...I think you will too!!) Smooch Honey and Take care! I will talk with you soon and like I said if you get bored and need to know any gossip just text me you know I have a boring life!
LOVE YOU BOO!!
Megan Nakia!!
kendall,
ReplyDeleteI wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I work with Whitney. You are being thought of and prayed for by lots of people all around. You are a strong girl, and will come through this with flying colors. God has great plans for you, stay stong!
-Jaime Cox
We love you, beautiful Kendall! May God strengthen you physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually in the days ahead. "I know the thoughts I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not evil, to give you a future and a hope"(Jere 29:11). Love, Marty, Angie, C.J. & Chandler
ReplyDeleteKendall,
ReplyDeleteYou know that you are and have always been very special to us. I know that the doctors in Houston are going to be amazed at how strong you are! I can't wait to see you again. Until then, lean on God and He will see you through. He has a wonderful plan for you. Know that we are praying for you and love you very much. And, oh yea, I told your mom to give you a hug from me everyday. So one of the millions that she will give is coming from me.
We love you!
Donny, Sissy, and Josh Headley
Hello Kendall - We want you to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you and your family. May you feel His presence everyday through this journey. Trust in the Lord! You are precious in His sight and ours! We will be following your progress and keeping in touch. Mike and Karen Edwards
ReplyDeleteKendall,
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts and prayers! I know that God will help you overcome this obstacle. In case you don't remember me, I know your mom and sisters will, I grew up 2 houses down from your grandparents in Mt. Olive and used to be good friends with you and your sisters. We used to have so much fun playing at your grandparents house. You are such a beautiful young lady and I know God has wonderful things in store for your future. Always remember, God will never give you more than you can handle.
Love,
Kelley Langham Andrews
Kendall, Daryl, and Tammy,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to let you know that you are going to constantly and consistently be in our prayers. I know things are going to work out for you and yes Kendall, always remember the verse from scripture that Daryl reminds you of quite frequently. It is so true that God will hold your hand no matter the cercumstances and get you through things that you never thought you could. God go with you on this journey and I can't wait to hear that you are home and doing well.
Daryl and Tammy,
If there is anything at all that we can do to ease your hearts please be sure and give us a call. We will be glad to help in anyway possible. You are both wonderful people and we would love to help. Much love and all of our prayers to you and your family. Thanks for doing the site Daryl.
Love and prayers,
Mike and Tina
Tammy, Kendall & Family,
ReplyDeleteThank you for this blog. We have been praying for you all. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you here. You will be constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Teresa Willcutt
You are in my prayers. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteOur prayers and thoughts are with you Kendall.
ReplyDeleteBe strong and keep the faith, God CAN do all things and he WILL.
Tammy and Daryl, remember we are here if Dylan
needs anything.Thanks to you for doing this site so we can stay up to date. We care and are here if you need us.
Sharon and Marlon Alexander and family
Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI have loved and admired you so very much. It has been a joy watching you grow up. What a great group of girls from the time you all began playing T Ball (sorry Ashley couldn't keep up!) You have been constantly in our prayers since we heard the news. We are praying for healing from God and strength for you and your family. God is in control. Cast all your cares upon Him. We will continue to pray. Be courageous and know we are standing behind you lifting you up. We love you,
Ann, Nick and Ashley Getwan
Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI am praying for you and your family.
Harriet Blackman
you are in my prayers Kendall
ReplyDeletekendall... the past week for me and you has been an uphill battle but as i pray i find peace in that i know the girl ive come to love so much is going to be alright because you are in the hands of God. We've been through it all together and this is just another stepping stone to our road to a perfect life we've talked about since day one March 31, 2008. Kendall you are the strongest person ive ever laid eyes on and i know you'll get through this. i love you more than anything i kno you know that but not a minute or second goes by that those big beautiful eyes doesnt come across my mind. Its hard to see someone you care for as much as i do you go through something like this but when i see your glow and your smile it makes me feel everything is gonna be alright. i love you forever and ever ken!
ReplyDeleteyour boy,
Chase
Kendall, Tammy, Daryl, and the rest of the Sutton/Thomas Family:
ReplyDeleteYou are in my prayers. I no longer live right down the street from you so I no longer have the pleasure of waking the the barks of Blue anymore. I have relocated to Baton Rouge. I am terribly sorry I cannot be there to pray you all through and to just be a comfort. Please know and trust that I am there with you all in spirit and that I am committed to being a prayer warrior for you all. Steven and Kendall have been friends for as long as I can remember and I had the great honor of watching her grow up. She is a beautiful young woman and a great example of Christ. Please know that I will be fervently praying for divine healing by the hands of the physicians placed over her care. God has appointed them already. He has a plan that is perfect and good. Trust in that. Find your strength in God alone and do not turn away from Him. His hand is holding you all.
Love in Christ.
Pam Hetherington
Hey lil sis, well just wanted to send you my love from good ole alabama! i love you very much!
ReplyDeleteLove Jess
Kendall Layne-
ReplyDeleteWe have been praying for you constantly.. But I know that God is so much bigger than this battle and you are going to overcome this and have such an impact on everyones lives! Dont worry I'll watch out for your squishy but i'm sure Em will take REALLY good care of it... You two are a pair so you gotta hurry and get better and get back here... :) We are all going to miss you but dont worry Emily and Kris are wanting to do a TX roadtrip! :)You are so much stronger than any person I know.. Me, Emily, and mom are going to work on our crying while you are gone! ;)...You've always been an added part of our family and we love you so much!
Love You!- Ashlyn & Kris
Kendall,I don't know if you would remeber me,But when you were a small little girl I took care of you at the Gardendale nazarene Daycare.You are still just as pretty now as you were then.I want you to know that we have you in our thought's and prayer's and are looking for a speedy recovery.Stay strong and hold tight to the LORDS hand,He will be your strength.Here's another word of comfort,If GOD brings you to it, He'll take you through it.I Love You and am praying for you.Mrs Rhonda Pierce.
ReplyDeleteKendall, i love you very much and i hope you fell better so that i can hug and kiss you alot when you come home.
ReplyDeleteI am praying for you and your family. Just remember, God is bigger than any situation we may encounter. Thanks for all of your help in the past Daryl.
ReplyDeleteDeric C.
Team Kendall,
ReplyDeleteWow, what a whirlwind!!! Daryl, I introduced myself to your stepdad last night and let him know that he could call us anytime. Dylan is a trouper...try not to worry about him...the village is working for you right now.
Tammy, hug your girl extra for me.
Kendall - BE POSITIVE - remember now, for always, all the blessings that have come your way...family, friends, faith, freedom, ability, intellect, beauty, loyalty, happiness, compassion, heart...God is Good.
Lifting you up......
Tina, Randy and Nicolette
We are praying for you.
ReplyDeleteGardendale Police
Scott
Tuesday Morning Prayer Group ,Praying for you
ReplyDeletekendall... its day two since ive last seen you and as the hour goes by it gets harder and harder but then again i kno as the day goes on it gets closer to the time when we get to see each other again! i cant wait itll be a mixed emotion when i see you and i cant wait to see you and your many smiles and winks that you share with me! i know your probably sleeping now because were not texting but i just wanted to write on here and say i miss you! and im counting down the days!
ReplyDeletei love you so much ken ken
love bubs :)
Dear Kendall, I just wanted to say that we here at AUM are thinking about you. I know all the girls are praying for you and can't wait till you are back running and diving with the team. No matter we love you and we know you will overcome this. I will pass this on to your teammates who would love to send you messages. Keep fighting and we love you.
ReplyDeleteChris, Holly, Ang
Kendall, Tammy & Daryl
ReplyDeleteHope ya'll got a little rest today. There's hardly a minute goes by that your not in my thoughts. Couldn't help but shed a few tears today but I'll keep trying to do better cause I know you are so much stronger than tears and when I think of your smile I'll smile too. Our prayers are with ya'll and so is God. I'm sure Em will see you soon!!
love you bunches
Jamie and Roger
Kendall, we will be praying for you and following your journey. One thing I have learned in my life is that even when we are not sure if God is around, or even if we can't "feel" him. He is there, he will never leave you nor forsake you. Stay focused on Him. He Loves you very much. Steve, Tina, Devin and Austin Vaughn.
ReplyDeleteDear Daryl, Just want you to know that Freddy and I are praying for Kendall and your entire family. Remember that nothing comes into our lives that is not filtered through the hands of God. He is faithful and will see you through this ordeal. Praying for complete healing, Jeanene Salze (Dillon Creel's grandmother)
ReplyDeletedear kendall,
ReplyDeletei havent seen you since we graduated but i miss
talking to you every once in awhile.
i found some old pic of us back in the day
when we were unseperable and always going to
the skating rink to hang out with everyone
those friday and saterday nights!
im praying for you ken! i know you can make it
through this your a strong person! ive seen
you pull through some hard times in your life..
this won't stop you now. i love you kendall!
ill be praying for you everyday you and your family.
love brittany jarvis and steve & lisa
Daryl, Tammie, and Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI have watched you Kendall grow up from a little girl on the ball field to a beautiful young lady. It has been a honor to be around you and your family. You and your family are a blessing to me. I pray for you daily and hope to see you on the ball field again soon. Just want to tell you that trials come to pass not to stay. Always look to the keeper of your souls "Jesus". His promise it that he will never leave or forsake us.
I love you guys and am praying for you daily.
Don
Kendall,Tammy and Daryl
ReplyDeleteYou guys are in our prayers we love you and know that God is in control.
Kendall, always remember Oh No You Never Let Go through the calm and through the storm, Lord You never let go of me. Kendall what an awesome and BEAUTIFUL young LADY you are. We praise God for you and His Healing on YOU. Love Mike & Rhonda
Kendall and Family,
ReplyDeleteI've heard through the grapevine of your situation. My brother, Andrew, was diagnosed with AML 8:21 1 year ago. Dr. Bonley referred him to MDAnderson where he was treated by Dr. Thomas with the same protocol you are currently undergoing. Andrew, mother and I basically lived at the Rotary House during his 8 month treatment other than the monthly trip home for a week to 10 days. Andrew had no major complications during his treatment, didn't lose any hair or experience any nausea. We have been back in Birmingham since April 09 and he is doing great.
I was his "medical assistant" and kept up with his bloodwork and will be happy to share it with you so your family can chart your progress. If you have any questions or just want to talk to someone who has been in the same place you are now, please let us know.
I wish you the best of luck and know that you are receiving the best medical care in the world.
Mary Bahri
gulfrent@aol.com
Kendall,
ReplyDeleteI remember when you first tried out for volleyball in May of your 6th grade year. You had a competiveness and stubbornness that has always made you a winner. Those same qualities will help you be a winner as you go through this journey.
I know that you are a fighter. I am praying for you.
I loved the pics of the plane and the haircut.
Please post an address where you can receive mail and packages. Take care.
Love,
Debra Murray
Hey Kendall! I know you are going through a tough time right now but I also know that you are a strong person with a determined heart. I remember playing basketball with you and at first you scared me a little haha you were very intimidating but I got to know you and loved you like my sis. You were always there to help and have my back on the court thanks lol and I want you to know that I am praying for you and I am here if yall need anything. Fight like a girl and beat this mess :) I love ya girl. love,Kris Quick
ReplyDeletepraying for u!!!!! dru jackson
ReplyDeleteKendall you are in our thoughts and prayers.If you or your family need anything please let us know.
ReplyDeleteLove Dale Gohn and Ashley Gohn Brown
Kendall, You do not know me but I know your parents and my husband worked with daryl. We are praying for you and have total faith in your speedy recovery. God sends us on tough journeys only to make us stronger when we reach our goal. Stay strong and positive. You are a beautiful, strong young lady and you see how many people love you and are praying for you. Best wishes to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteKristi, Tim Evans and girls.
Daryl and Tammy,
ReplyDeleteEric, Anna and I are praying for all of you as you travel this road. Your favorite verse, Philippians 4:13, is one I have shared with my patients since I began my nursing career 27 years ago. He will strengthen all of you and when you feel as though you can't go on, He will carry you. Remember, many are praying you through.
Eric, Lesia and Anna Knight
Gardenridge Road
Kendall, Daryl & Tammy,
ReplyDeleteThe time has flown by & our little girls are grown up. Remember when Brooke & Kendall use to watch us play softball. I know she will get thru this. Our prayers are with you & your family. Let me know if we can help in anyway.
Love Scott Donna(P) & Brooke Wilson
Kendall
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
-Gardendale Fire Department-
Daryl
ReplyDeleteMe and my family are hoping for speedy recovery and will keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers.
I am a Police Detective for the City Of Helena in Alabama. I have spoken to several people within the Gardendale Police Department who support you and your family. I will keep everyone in my prayers and you should know that your fellow brothers will be here if you or the family needs anything. I have never been through an incident like this, but I am a father of a 3 year old little girl and I couldn't imagine the amount of stress you are going through. I wanted to take this time to let you know that there are people who care for you and your family. If I can do anything for you, other than pray, Please do not hesitate to call or email. Keep all of us updated and God Bless
ReplyDeleteHello Kendall and Family,
ReplyDeleteMy prayers and thoughts are with all of you all. I keep up through conversations with Layne (well, I guess I get some of the information). We all can't wait until you get to come home. Keep getting better and stay strong! Love you all.
The Bryson Family in Hayden, AL is praying for you and your family. GOD be with you and keep your spirits high. He will strengthen you when no one else can.
ReplyDeletei love penatrating viginas with my dick and suckin on boobies so comeon kendall give me some pussy
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